28 May 2018

Memorial Day - The Graves of Our Fathers

I've posted this before, but felt it fitting for Memorial Day.
 “A man who would not defend his father's grave is worse than a wild animal.”
~ Chief Joseph
Number 91 on a weathered, lonely, blank headstone; a shared grave with two other men. Not much of a tribute for someone who was a POW and died for his country. For 140 years my family knew nothing of what happened to my great-great grandfather, John Meredith Crutchfield. We did know that Grandpa Crutchfield left the family farm, walked to Gauley Bridge, Virginia (West VA today) and enlisted with the 60th Virginia Infantry, Company F at the beginning of the war. He was wounded at the Battle of Piedmont in the Shenandoah Valley (just a few minutes from my home here in Augusta County), taken prisoner by the Federals and transported to the infamous POW Camp Morton in Indiana where prisoners received cruel treatment at the hands of Union soldiers.

Transferred to Chimborazo Hospital in March of 1865 in a prisoner exchange, my grandfather died there on March 28. There, the story ended – or so the family thought. John Crutchfield’s widow died years later not knowing what had become of him. Had he deserted? Had he run off with another woman? Had he been killed in battle? No one knew until the 1950’s when my great aunt discovered the information about the Battle of Piedmont and Chimborazo. But the family still did not know what became of his body. Where was he buried or was he buried? Then I wrote a piece for the Washington Times’ Civil War column detailing some of my grandfather’s story. The story was read by a gentleman in Richmond who was working on the restoration of Oakwood Cemetery in Richmond. This cemetery, where many Confederate veterans are buried, had fallen into shameful neglect in recent years. I was contacted by this man and he told me that he knew for a fact that John Meredith Crutchfield was buried at Oakwood – family mystery solved. I love history. And I love the God of history who providentially shows us what we need to know to honor our fathers.

Though I've had grandfathers who were veterans (WWI and WWII), John Crutchfield is the only one who died was a war casualty. Both of those men (shown below) were descendants of Confederate Veterans and proudly served in the U.S. Army.

Sgt. Fred S. Busic, U.S. Army, WWII
(My grandfather)
Private Frank Coffey, U.S. Army, WWI
(My grandfather)


Eddie said...
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DTB-56 said...

Interesting how enormous the impact of World War One was and how little we think of it today. Some of it is we personally know World War Two veterans and that war was so much of a modern event.

John D said...

Glad you finally ran it to ground. I need to do for my family when/if I ever retire.


Jorge Maspons said...

Thank you for these wonderful stories. When I was growing up and still in Cuba I felt a connection to the American soldiers. Little did I know that one day I would also be an American in uniform. Today I am a volunteer at the WW2 Museum in New Orleans and really enjoy talking with every one about freedom. WE welcome Soaring Valor (Honor Flights) These veterans will not be with us too much longer. God Bless our Nation
In the heart a Cuban Southener
Jorge Maspons

Champ Livingston said...

Remember confederates are not American Veterans. You must serve in the US Military to gain that status and also not fight against the US.

Richard G. Williams, Jr. said...

DTB, John and Jorge - thanks for reading and for your comments.

Champ - no, you're incorrect. They were Americans. They were veterans.